A CUBAN REFUGEE’S JOURNEY TO THEDREAM AMERICAN
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To my parents Elio Angel González and Armantina González Torres For their love and sacrifices
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Contents
Acknowledgments Prologue A Homecoming The Great North Into the Cold Miami Do-Over I, Too, Am a Passerby Home of the Gators Life After College Professional Transitions Introduction to Hoosier Culture Give the Thaw a Chance But I’m from Around Here To You, the Immigrant Epilogue Bibliography
Acknowledgments
IGRATEFULLY ACKNOWLEDGE and thank the many wonderful people who have contributed to the preparation of this memoir. First of all, I thank my parents Elio Angel González and Armantina González Torres for their love, guidance, and support throughout the years. ey contributed many stories and anecdotes that helped shape this book, and provided insightful perspectives on our lives as Cuban refugees and on the values I hold as a Cuban-American educator. To my sister Maritza, who helped me /ll in some blanks in my memory and provided a photographic history of our family, which she meticulously organized over the years. Maritza, you have always been there for me. I love you, and many thanks. To my wife and partner, Marjorie, who always found a way to kindly let me know when my vanity was getting in the way of my writing, and who enriched this book through her patience, devotion, and thoughtful comments: I express my love and thanks. My love and thanks also go to my children Justin, Jarrett, Ian, and Julie, who encouraged and supported me throughout this process. To the people mentioned in this book, including Hugo Morales, Rafael Garcia, Oscar (Tommy) Pedraja, Arturo Saviñon, Rolando Breto, Richard Swanson, Carol Van Hartesveldt, Harold Riker, Governor Otis Bowen, Charlie Reed, Joe Wittmer, David Smith, Rod McDavis, Ken Gros Louis, and the many, many others named and unnamed, who have touched my life in so many positive ways: I say thanks. Of course, the loving memories of my paternal grandparents Manuel González Méndez and Encarnación de la Cruz Soto, as well as my aunt Luisa Peralta, were never far from my thoughts while writing this memoir. Many thanks also go to Lee Ann Sandweiss, who wrote a story about my /rst trip to Cuba forBloom Magazine, and encouraged me to write a book. Her guidance and editorial assistance through the proposal preparation process were invaluable. Likewise, I’m grateful to Gary Dunham, director of Indiana University Press, who also provided helpful suggestions during the early stages of writing. Special thanks also to Robert Clark, Jenny Ashton, Alan Gold and Sandra Balonyi for their terri/c input and excellent editorial suggestions. Additional editorial services were provided by Jan R. Holloway, whose contributions signi/cantly improved the manuscript and helped me put it all together. For cover design and art direction, I acknowledge the fine work of the IU Press team and Lee Griffin. is book is a labor of love. It could not have been realized without the encouragement, support, and loving assistance of everyone named above, and many others who believed in me. My heartfelt thanks to you all. I gratefully acknowledge the following sources for permission to reprint from previously published work: GONZÁLEZ, GERARDO M. and CHARLES L. CARNEY. 2014. “Challenging the Spectacle: A Case Study on Education Policy Advocacy.”International Journal of Leadership and Change(1): 19–27. 2 Copyright © WKU College of Education and Behavioral Sciences. All rights reserved. Used by permission of Dr. Joseph P. Cangemi, editor. SANDWEISS, LEE ANN. 2012. “A Sentimental Journey.”Bloom Magazine 7 (5): 114–119. © 2006– 2015 Bloomington Magazine, Inc. All rights reserved. Used by permission of the author and Malcolm Abrams, publisher.
AREFUGEE’S JOURNEY CUBAN TO THEDREAM AMERICAN
Prologue
HOW MANY OF us begin life not knowing who we are or where we live? How many children pass their childhood in a state of utter confusion, not able to speak the language of their neighborhood or understand the alien culture into which they’ve been thrust? How many children sit in a school classroom, taunted every day and viewed as dumb by their fellow students and teachers because they can’t understand a word that’s being said? Life is confusing enough for a child—any child—but with the solid footing of a stable home and a family that is well integrated into society, most kids can negotiate their way through the joys of childhood and the traumas of being a teenager and build on these foundational years to become responsible adults. Given a solid home life, school, college, and the workforce can be natural progressions for many of us. We grow, we advance, and we achieve. So what happens when a family’s stable ground is suddenly ripped from under a child’s feet and he feels like he’s walking through quicksand? When he sees his father and mother not as successful adults but living in constant fear? What goes through his mind when he is forced to remain mute, day aer day, year after year, because he is afraid if he speaks, his teachers will discipline him? When he becomes stuck, because his teachers interpret his silence as bad behavior? ese were the issues I faced as a boy of eleven. I was once a bright and happy child. But when my family relocated to a strange and forbidding society, I couldn’t speak or understand those around me. I was forced to conform to the standards of a society I simply couldn’t comprehend. My name is Gerardo González. I am a Cuban refugee who arrived in the United States shortly aer Fidel Castro came to power. We 3ed a regime we wanted no part of, whose economics and ideology we distrusted. But in the United States my father, mother, sister, and I suffered dislocation, isolation, and fear. Today’s immigrants and refugees, in the main, face even more daunting challenges. Regardless of their reasons for 3eeing and the traumas they suffer, all who 7nd themselves stateless face common experiences. is is my story, but it’s also the story of all immigrants who have had to leave their homes out of fear and desperation. We share a constant fear of authority in everything we do. We feel isolated when we see people our own age, born in our host nation, walking freely along the pavement. We feel we’re here under sufferance. If the world is to survive today’s refugee and migrant crisis, we have to remember what happened at the beginning of the last century, along the pathways etched into the fertile soil of a young America. We have to remember the time when people and governments saw refugees, migrants, and immigrants not as an unwelcome invasion or a drain on society but as a resource that, when nurtured, would become society’s most valuable asset—its citizens. is isn’t a book about politics or the rights and wrongs of global disputes. is is a book about one person—a refugee, a boy whose childhood was ripped from him, yet who, thanks to a few caring people in the society where he grew up, became an adult who succeeded beyond anybody’s wildest expectations. Decades ago, he cowered in a church in fear, pretending to be mute simply to escape punishment. No one could have predicted his future professional roles as teacher, advocate, professor, and dean of education at one of America’s most prestigious universities. And now, by some extraordinary turn of fate, he is one of the leaders chosen to help foster a new relationship between Cuba, the nation from which he was exiled, and the United States, the nation that opened its arms to him. I hope my story will resonate in the mind of every person who has been forcibly relocated because of war or disputes, religion, or territory or by governments who put ideology before the needs of their people. It’s a story that goes beyond compassion to one of the fundamental human rights, a right to which every child is entitled. It’s about what can change the life of a child, and indeed the world—the right to an education! Education is more, much more, than learning to read, write, and do sums. Education is an